I speak here of natural death, not the unnatural mass extinction that we have set in motion on the planet at this time. Natural extinctions have occurred on Earth roughly every twenty-six million years. We should have another twelve million years left of this cycle, if we do not destroy our world prematurely. Accepting our individual mortality is an important part of allowing our planet to fulfill her natural cycle. Ironically, our own fear of death and loss of possessions may lead us to destroy ourselves in a nuclear war, as we project our fears onto the "other" or "enemy." Our lack of spiritual foundation and our anxiety about material security lead us to environmental catastrophe as we drain the Earth of her resources. In addition, our fear of psychic death keeps us from acknowledging transitions in our lives or extra-rational forms of consciousness, such as the wisdom of ritual, meditation, trance and dreams.
In Euro-Western culture, which does not generally recognize or value the great interrelatedness of the web of life, and which primarily views people in terms of personal identity or material reality, transformation can be a terrifying process. We resist, dread or ignore all kinds of change, whether they be life transitions, altered states of consciousness, loss or death. We forget that, as surely as spring follows winter, new life grows out of the old. The process of letting go and emptying is essential for renewal.
Transformation is an essential part of our existence.
When we die, life goes on; our individual selves do not.
Many people of primal cultures, like those of the
Goddesses presented in this book, who live closer
to the cycles of our planet, know that death is not
the opposite of life, but a gateway, just as birth is.
In the words of a Pueblo Indian, "Death is a natural
and necessary phenomenon, for if nobody died there
would soon be no room left in the world." Similarly,
on a psychic level, to whom should we offer those
outdated, limited parts of ourselves? Surely not
to a Goddess of fertility and abundance who would
cause them to proliferate, but to a Goddess like Kali
or Coatlique who has the capacity to consume that
which no longer bears fruit and to transmute it into
new life.
Physical death is one of the great mysteries of life,
as great a miracle as birth and sexuality. When we die,
our vastly complex bodies disintegrate and "we" seem
to disappear. Who are we? Where do we come from?
Where do we go? These are questions which challenge
many of us. At both birth and death, we enter what
some Native Americans call the Great Mysterious.
We cannot know our future in either transition,
but we can learn to trust the process.
In my research, I have found that all Goddesses of Death, taken in their original or cultural context, are also Goddesses of Rebirth, for the two concepts are inseparable for those who understand the laws of Nature. It has been frequently noted that the death throes are similar to those of birthing. Also, women have been the primary caregivers for the dying, who are often held as a child would be. In myth and art throughout the world, Goddesses teach the mysteries of death and rebirth and receive the dead back to their breasts or into their wombs. Death and birth images are often juxtaposed, for both are aspects of the all-encompassing Mother of Life. Death is not a final ending, but a return to the Mother, another cycle in the spiral of life, a doorway to another part of existence.
This concept is difficult to comprehend
in our dualistic world, which has isolated
and resisted the death aspect. Furthermore,
in the suppression of women the patriarchy
has relegated death and all that it deems
fearsome (including the power of women)
to what are known as the Dark Goddesses.
Yet these Goddesses were once part of the
whole, the Great Goddess, who encompasses
all aspects of life. It is this split which drives
us to madness and causes us to destroy ourselves
and our world. We are caught in a self-defeating
struggle against the very nature of life itself.
Rites of passage often imitate the processes of
death and birth, for they are created to help
facilitate change from one form, physical or psychic,
to another. Thus initiates from around the world
are known as "the twice-born." Most of us do not
have ceremonies or support for changes in our lives
or for confronting death. We can carry our fear
and sorrow everywhere we go, until we ourselves
die. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, pioneer in working with
death and dying, focuses on helping people complete
their "unfinished business" concerning the deaths
in their lives.
It is the same with the little deaths: We hold onto relationships, past opportunities, possessions and patterns of thinking and acting even when their vitality or appropriateness are long past. We are like deciduous trees clinging to our leaves, denying ourselves the opportunity for compost for new growth. In order to grow we must allow transformation. In order to be reborn, we must allow death.
The Goddesses of Transformation can help us reclaim the sacred dimensions of trance, meditation and creativity. To employ such extra-rational parts of our consciousness, we must temporarily expand beyond our egos and exclusively rational thought.
On both physical and psychological levels, we must know death before we can lead others to life. Once we have gained a depth
of understanding from this intuitive perspective, we can call in our rational faculties to implement our inspiration. In this way
we function with all our resources—including our whole brains and souls united with our minds and hearts.
The Goddesses of Trance in this section help us remember our heritage of larger consciousness, embodying for us a diversity
of practices: silent meditation, ritual, chanting, dreams, dance and shamanic journeying. Trance may also be a rehearsal for death, a way to practice letting go of our egos in preparation for the physical passage.
Women might have easier access to what we call altered states of consciousness, while balancing them with a practical outlook. Perhaps male initiation rites are often emphasized more than women's because men do not experience the same intense transformations that are a natural part of women's lives. In fact, many initiation rites specifically imitate women's bleeding
and birthing. Perhaps the dramatic physical changes of menstruation, pregnancy, multiple orgasms, nursing and menopause are women's training for moving in and out of different states of consciousness.
We have much to learn from the Goddesses of Transformation and from peoples who ceremonially honor the cycles of life's transitions. As demonstrated in the stories of Persephone, Inanna, and the Dzonokwa, it is only by going into the underworld of our psyches that we can discover and bring back the jewels of wisdom hidden there. Remembering the unity of birth, death and rebirth can help us heal our fears and the destructive tendencies which result from those fears. We can then truly rediscover how to live in more peace and harmony on this planet, as those honoring the Goddesses of Transformation have done for millennia.